Dear 2022....

Dear 2022,

What should I write about you. You are the most unexpected year it's like I'm living in the mysterious dream. In this year I have done things which I never thought of. I survived this year. You taught me living alone is not that difficult if you have strength to endure your pain. You taught me that everyone has their own battles in life, so you are not important to everyone every time. Best memories are limited it's like cherries on the top of cake, limited yet beautiful. Though being alone is strength still having love in life is all we needed to bloom.

This year shows, life is not only about happiness and celebrations; But it also about the feelings of your scared moments, crying for the person you loved and missing their absence in life, going through the worst pain silently, struggling with your academics, career, relationship losses, feeling missing out from your own people etc. These are also the emotions we had felt but mostly undervalued them. By cherishing all these happy and sad moments we complete our life.

This year taught me that people are not really bad but it's misunderstanding about them we create, we give so much importance to ourselves that we forget that everyone have their own expectations from life, and we just can't fit in it; but Humanity turned into cruelty every time you allow to forgive some people to their unacceptable behavior. Saying NO is not easy but once done, situation becomes easier and simpler. Our parents love for us is eternal though they are not physically with us still they leave their gems as people around us who lighten up us in every aspect and we can ease in their shadow.

This year taught me accepting our own mistakes and forgiving ourselves is very difficult but once you done you will release from your own overthinking. Healing from your deep emotional wound is not easy process but you really need someone to drag out of that phase. So, having friends in life is one of the biggest blessings. Traveling in the nature gives new perspective of life and also ensure that in this world you are not an orphan, you deserve a special space in this cosmos. 

This year also taught me that connection is real. But it also has time validity. Nothing in this world is permanent even the nature changes according to weather; likewise, people come in life; bonds become strong but after some time we have to accept that nothing is forever.

At last, life is not indeed easy but if we have to accept that we are here for minimal time, then living in the moments becomes a precious thing.

2022 was all about learnings and seeing an eternal truth of life. 

Hope in the next year I'll experience the journey of life felicitously. 💫💫💫